Monthly Archives: aprill 2017


There really is no greater satisfaction that you can imagine than the kind of personal relationship wherein you can trust a being who is other than you – and not under your control – to do for you what you want because they want to and like it. So, in the same way, you on your side would want to do something for them in that same ideal so as to give pleasure to them.

Allan Watts

Kaidi Laur: kuidas ära tunda tõelist armastust?


Armastades lubame kaaslasel olla tema ise. Armumisel tahame näha inimest, keda näha soovime või enda päästmiseks vajame.

Armumine on ego-põhine ehk “Mulle meeldid sa sellisena ja ainult sellisena olen nõus sind imetlema”. Armastus on armastus-põhine ehk “Sa oled, kes sa oled ja see on kõik, kes sa oled ning ma aktsepteerin seda”.

Armumisesse on sisse kirjutatud pettumine. Armastusse olemine. Armastus on tänulikkus ning mõistmine, et sellisena, nagu teine inimene on, on ta mulle väärtuslik. Et ma austan teda sellena, kes ta on, isegi, kui ma temaga ei nõustu.

Armastus on turvatunde loomine ning hoidmine, et iga eksimuse või erimeelsuse peale ei näidata ust. Armastus on meie sisemine jumalik olemus, millel on kõrgemad väärtused nagu tänutunne, austus, andestamine ja tunnustamine.

Armastus ei ole projektsioon, vaid siiralt teise inimese nägemine (“Ma näen su tundeid, su mõtteid, su reaktsiooni ja vajadusi!”) ning tema mõistmine.


Wherever you are, be there totally. If you find your here and now intolerable and it makes you unhappy, you have three options: remove yourself from the situation, change it, or accept it totally. If you want to take responsibility for your life, you must choose one of those three options, and you must choose now. Then accept the consequences.

Acceptance looks like a passive state, but in reality it brings something entirely new into this world. That peace, a subtle energy vibration, is consciousness.

Always say “yes” to the present moment. What could be more futile, more insane, than to create inner resistance to what already is? what could be more insane than to oppose life itself, which is now and always now? Surrender to what is. Say “yes” to life — and see how life suddenly starts working for you rather than against you.

~ Eckhart Tolle


When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself. Perception is not reality. What appear to be faults in others may actually be reflections of our own emotional afflictions. I don’t have an attitude problem; you have a perception problem.

Remember, the way people treat us is their karma. The way we react is our own.

~ Trulshik Rinpoche


Whatever happens to you, don’t fall in despair. Even if all the doors are closed, a secret path will be there for you that no one knows. You can’t see it yet but so many paradises are at the end of this path. Be grateful! It is easy to thank after obtaining what you want, thank before having what you want.

~ Shams Tabrizi