Monthly Archives: jaanuar 2015


“Sexual relationships and marriages need to be given new meaning. Marriage and family represent the nucleus of society. If this nucleus is contaminated, and there is no truth, honesty, transparency, or cooperation, then it is impossible to have a just and balanced society. It’s no wonder our society is so corrupt, deceitful and destructive. This all begins in our relationships. If we are unable to be honest with the person sleeping by our side, then with whom can we be honest?”
– Sri Prem Baba –

Why we shout in anger


A Hindu saint who was visiting river Ganges to take bath found a group of family members on the banks, shouting in anger at each other. He turned to his disciples smiled’n asked.

‘Why do people shout in anger shout at each other?’

Disciples thought for a while, one of them said,’Because we lose our calm, we shout.’

‘But, why should you shout when the other person is just next to you? You can as well tell him what you have to say in a soft manner.’asked the saint

Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the other disciples.
Finally the saint explained, .

‘When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other to cover that great distance.

What happens when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other but talk softly, Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is either nonexistent or very small…’

The saint continued,’When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper’n they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other’n that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.’

He looked at his disciples and said.

‘So when you argue do not let your hearts get distant, Do not say words that distance each other more, Or else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.’

Iga kord, kui mind tabab mingi negatiivne tunne, siis ma teadvustan, et see ongi ainult minu tunne.


Sest siin Maa peal ei juhtu ühtki asja juhuslikult. Kõik, mis sinuga siin juhtub, selle oled sa ju eelnevalt kokku leppinud. Ja kui sa oled kokku leppinud, et see või too inimene peab sinus negatiivseid tundeid esile kutsuma, siis sa mõistad teda ja oled talle
pigem tänulik. Kui ma saan teada, et minus on nii palju negatiivsust sellepärast, et ma saaksin selle ringi teha, siis mida ja kellele on mul andeks anda?


You cannot find in the world of forms anything that is satisfying. The world of form is the world of changes. You cannot find anything eternal in the world of changes, expect the change. But to find unchanging you must go to the formless…

…who will recognize your invisibility?



Ernest Holmes
TA LASI LAHTI/ Ta lasi minna

Ta lasi lahti hirmust
Ta lasi lahti hinnangutest
Ta lasi minna ümber oma pea kihavatel kokkuvalgunud arvamustel
Ta lasi lahti endas oleva otsustamatuse meeskonna, ta lasi lahti KÕIK oma “õiged” põhjused.
Täielikult ja jäägitult, ilma kahtluse ja vaevata, lasi ta kõigest lahti.
Ta ei küsinud kelleltki nõu.
Ta ei lugenud ühtegi raamatut, kuidas lasta lahti…
Ta ei otsinud pühakirjadest tuge. Ta lihtsalt lasi lahti, Ta lasi minna kõigil mälestustel, mis hoidsid teda tagasi.
Ta lasi lahti kogu ärevusest, mis hoidis teda edasi liikumast.
Ta lasi lahti planeerimisest ja kalkuleerimisest, kuidas teha kõike ainult õigeti.
Ta ei lubanud, et laseb kõigest lahti.
Ta ei pannud seda päevikusse kirja.
Ta ei kirjutanud prognoositud kuupäeva oma kalendrisse.
Ta ei teinud avalikku teadaannet ega pannud seda paberile kirja.
Ta ei kontrollinud ilmateadet ega lugenud horoskoopi.
Ta lihtsalt lasi lahti, Ta ei analüüsinud, kas ta peaks laskma lahti,
Ta ei helistanud sõpradele, et arutada olukorda.
Ta ei läbinud viie astmelist Vaimse Maailma Käsitlust.
Ta ei helistanud tugiliinile. Ta ei lausunud ühtki sõna. Ta lihtsalt lasi minna.
Kedagi ei olnud läheduses kui see toimus.Seal ei olnud apalusi ega õnnitlusi.
See polnud ei HEA ega HALB. See oli see, mis see oli ja see lihtsalt on nii.
Lahti laskmise ruumis, ta lasi sellel kõigel olla.
Väike naeratus libises üle ta näo. Kerge tuul puhus tast läbi.
Ja päike ja kuu paistsid ikka taevas.


“Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry — all forms of fear — are caused by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of non-forgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence.”
Eckhart Tolle


Pray with your woman, sing with your woman, play with your woman, dance with your woman, with no idea of sex.
Don’t go on thinking, when are we going to bed? Forget about it. Do something else and get lost into it. And some day Love will arise out of that being lost. Suddenly, you will see that you are making love and you are not making it. It is happening. You are possessed by it. Then you have your first Tantra experience, possessed by something bigger than you. You were dancing or you were singing together or you were chanting together or you were praying together or meditating together, and suddenly you find you both have moved into a new space. And you don’t know when you have started making love; you don’t remember either. Then you are being possessed by Tantra energy. And then for the first time you will see a non-technical experience.”


This love you cannot force. There is no way to manipulate it. It is nothing you can do about it. All you can do is to allow. Let the ripeness appear on its own time. It will come on its own time.

What you will do when you are watching the apple tree? You do not pull the fruits. Do not force. You just watch and care. Protect the tree, water the tree. Everything you can do, you do. But what can you do to force? Just helping the tree to ripe on its own time. Then the fruits will come and you watch. One day it is ripe, sweet. Let the rippness appear on its own time.
Osho, Beloved

Make Friends With What Is True, and Invite Life to Befriend You


We have no greater Friend in life than that small part of us that loves what is True. The more we are able to recognize and honor the fact of this matter, the more powerfully does this interior Friend step forward… And prove to us the value of our love for it.