This love you cannot force. There is no way to manipulate it. It is nothing you can do about it. All you can do is to allow. Let the ripeness appear on its own time. It will come on its own time.
What you will do when you are watching the apple tree? You do not pull the fruits. Do not force. You just watch and care. Protect the tree, water the tree. Everything you can do, you do. But what can you do to force? Just helping the tree to ripe on its own time. Then the fruits will come and you watch. One day it is ripe, sweet. Let the rippness appear on its own time.